Ruth Kusemiju

Always win through your ACTIONS rather than your arguments.

Any momentary triumph you think you have gained through argument is really a Pyrrhic victory: the resentment and ill-will you stir up are stronger and last longer than any other momentary change of opinion. It is much more powerful to get others to agree with you through your actions , without saying a word. Demonstrate, do not explicate.

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Ruth Kusemiju

“Try not to be a man of  success but rather become a man of value”

Albert Einstein

I want success.  I dream of it daily.  I affirm it to myself every morning and every night, and frequently throughout my day.  I advise others to go after their own ideal for success.

What is success?

We live in a world in which being successful is everything. Success is measured by power, popularity, control, achievement, and winning. Having more and being more is success. In any case, we are still believing that “success” means “things.”

I like things.  I like things a lot.  I’m 26 years old and I still write a long Shopping list, even if nobody reads it.  The things, however, are not all meaningless.  I know this.  I am who I am with or without them.  They are symbolic of my persona, and my persona is not my essence, it is…

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Ruth Kusemiju

The next time you enjoy a steak at the dinner, send word to the chef that it was excellently prepared, and when a tired salesman shows you unusual courtesy, please mention it.

Every lecturer, minister, and public speaker knows the discouragement of pouring himself or herself out to an audience and not receiving a single ripple of appreciative comments. What applies to professionals applies doubly to workers in offices, shops, and factories, and to our families and friends. In our  interpersonal relationships, we should never forget that all our associates are human beings and hunger for appreciation. It’s the legal tender that all souls enjoy.

  • One of the most neglected virtue of our day is Appreciation. Honest Appreciation gets results, criticism and ridicule fails.

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Hi everyone!

Thanks so much for visiting this blog, I would love to add some colour to your day, put a smile on your face and just be your friend. Life is a long journey coloured by the situations we face and the relationships we build. Enjoy the quotes and let’s talk or gist.